BE STRONG ENOUGH TO LET GO. .

” I suppose, in the end, the whole life becomes an act of letting go : Life Of Pi “

The hardest thing about letting go is making the decision and feeling okay about it. At some point, we must let go of things and move on. And see how would your life be different if you learned to let go of things that have already let go of you.

” From relationships long gone,

to old grudges, to regrets,

to all the ‘could’ve and should’ve’,

to all the dead friendships you still hang on to.”

Free youself from the burden of past you holding on to for no reason.

Some people and things just aren’t meant to be for you, no matter how much you wish they were. Some jobs, situations even your favorite city just won’t work out, no matter how much you hope they would. Sometimes we have to give up on people, not because we don’t care but because they don’t. It hurts to let go but sometimes it hurts more to hold on.

“I realise there’s something incredibly honest about trees in winter, how they experts at letting dead things go.”

The phrase “Let it go” used to irritate me a lot because I didn’t know what it meant and how to do it. How anyone could let go of their favorite person or things? And being an emotional person there are times when I still struggle with it at times.

I am in the process of learning the act of “letting go”. At the age of the ’30s, I have experienced a lot, holding on to something, and holding on to people isn’t a good way of living, because there is no point in holding on. I have learned that “Letting go” does not mean you stop caring, it means you stop trying to force yourself on others too.

“Bus khud pe daya karna band karo, aur khud se pyar karna seekho”

“Letting go” is also a matter of self-worth. It’s okay to outgrow people, places, and things, it’s okay for them to outgrow you too. Allow yourself to grieve the loss of what you’re letting go of. Ask yourself is what I am holding on to also holding on to me? Ask yourself why I a,m holding on to it, is it for good? Relationships don’t need to last forever. Remember letting go is also letting in and making new space in your heart for something new. Don’t lose your self-respect in order of holding on.

Breathe. let go. And remind yourself that this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.

When you stop chasing the wrong things, you give the right things a chance to catch you.

“Everyday we have a choice to keep holding on just a little bit longer, conclude that today is the the day we finally let go.”

“I’ve finally learned to let of what’s been hurting me for a long, long time”

Ending this blog with the hope that one day you will be strong enough to ” let things go” too.